For the submissives

These are posts that are primarily of use to s-types (submissives/slaves/property/etc) and the people who lead them.

Other resources for s-types can be found here. If your preferred style of power exchange is Victorian, check out this page of resources.

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By Title

  • Discovering My Inner Victorian: I work out my preferred (and in retrospect, obvious) style of power exchange. [Included are many quotes from various essays by people in English-style hierarchical relationships.]
  • A Handful of Cinnamon: Power Exchange, Kink and Sex: The role kink plays in my life in relation to power exchange and sex.
  • My Kink Could Be Your Kink: Re-examining a long-held, personal definition of an individual kink (pageism) in light of the BDSM tradition of being inclusive rather than exclusive.
  • The Pageist Introduces Herself: The first two essays I wrote about pageism–what it means to me and how mine evolved over the twelve years between the two essays.
  • Something of a Different Nature: An essay about the first pageist, as reported in Richard von Krafft-Ebing’s Psychopathia Sexualis.
  • Statement of Purpose 2017-2018: A Statement of Purpose (in the kink world) is a training contract an s-type makes with oneself. This is mine for the year 2017-2018 and includes information on how I put it together, based upon suggestions from Miss Abernathy’s indispensable Training with Miss Abernathy.
  • Submissive CVs and Resumes: How to build a CV or training resume to give to a potential D-type & the prospective benefits of having one.
  • Submissive Guide (Review): An outstanding resource for any s-type with education, resources, advice and more.
  • Thoughts on Service: Explaining the joys of service-oriented submission and how providing service to a dominant differs from doing chores.
  • TracknShare: Review of the productivity app.

By Subject

  • Journal Entries
    • Submissive Journal Prompts, Meditations for Submissives and prompts and exercises from Where I am Led are on this page.
  • Paperwork
    • Statement of Purpose 2017-2018: A Statement of Purpose (in the kink world) is a training contract an s-type makes with oneself. This is mine for the year 2017-2018 and includes information on how I put it together, based upon suggestions from Miss Abernathy’s indispensable Training with Miss Abernathy.
    • Submissive CVs and Resumes: How to build a CV or training resume to give to a potential D-type & the prospective benefits of having one.
  • Personal Essays
    • Discovering My Inner Victorian: I work out my preferred (and in retrospect, obvious) style of power exchange. [Included are many quotes from various essays by people in English-style hierarchical relationships.]
    • A Handful of Cinnamon: Power Exchange, Kink and Sex: The role kink plays in my life in relation to power exchange and sex.
    • My Kink Could Be Your Kink: Re-examining a long-held, personal definition of an individual kink (pageism) in light of the BDSM tradition of being inclusive rather than exclusive.
    • The Pageist Introduces Herself: The first two essays I wrote about pageism–what it means to me and how mine evolved over the twelve years between the two essays.
    • Something of a Different Nature: An essay about the first pageist, as reported in Richard von Krafft-Ebing’s Psychopathia Sexualis.
    • Submissive Rite of Passage or Two (A): My first experience being judged by a kinky person and being told by a stranger that I wasn’t submissive (by their standards)–both important moments in any kinksters life.
    • Thoughts on Service: Explaining the joys of service-oriented submission and how providing service to a dominant differs from doing chores.
  • Productivity Apps
    • TracknShare: Review of the goal, habit, and time-tracking app.
  • Review
    • Submissive Guide: An outstanding resource for any s-type with education, resources, advice and more.