Tag Archive: D/s

May 30 2017

Decoding Your Kink by Galen Fous

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{This is the text of the book review from episode 52.} This episode’s book review is Decoding Your Kink: Guide to Explore, Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires by Galen Fous. Whose name I hope I am pronouncing correctly. I received this book for free, but that has never stopped me from being honest …

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May 23 2017

Episode 052: Decoding Your Kink

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Episode the fifty-second; Wherein the Pageist seems to have become an adult at some point, meditates on the importance of finding your place and learns about her personal erotic myth. The book reviewed is Decoding Your Kink: Guide to Explore, Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires by Galen Fous. .45 Intro and Announcements: The …

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Jan 08 2017

Episode 37: Real Service

Episode the thirty-seventh; Wherein the Pageist registers for a conference for sexy nerds, discovers the perfect mascot for oh, so many wonderful people and shares info on a new site for the kink community. The book reviewed is Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera. .48 Intro & Announcements: The show is now in …

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Jul 26 2016

Female Led Relationships by Nookie

[This is the text of the book review from episode 017 of the podcast.] This episode’s book review is actually three books on Female Led Relationships by Nookie. She goes by NookieNotes on Fetlife. Some of her books are under MsNN. Before we get started: I received these books for free in exchange for an …

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Feb 20 2016

10 Signs He’s an Asshole Not a Dominant

This piece was posted by someone on Fet but the poster pulled it from the internet and the original author has been lost in the shuffle. If you know who wrote it, please leave a comment. This is 10 warning signs for submissives–things to look for when meeting people who claim to be D-types. TOP …

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Feb 06 2016

What Dominance and submission is with SirStarryNight

This week’s Mentor post comes from Tumblr user SirStarryNight. It’s a nice, concise primer for people wondering what BDSM is and is not. There are definitions of the main people you’ll find on either side of the slash and, of course, not everyone will completely agree with one another’s definitions, but this post is still …

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Oct 17 2015

Why Punishment is a Gift with Brittunculi

Punishment within a power exchange is important, but that doesn’t mean it’s sheer joy. This week’s Mentor post is by Brittunculi and explains how and why s-types should value punishment, even if we don’t look forward to it. Punishments suck when done as an actual punishment. There are the fun ones where you’re both messing …

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Oct 10 2015

Equality in D/s with Innermind

Innermind writes a lot on FetLife. A lot. This time around he’s talking about equality in power exchange relationships. Which is a real thing. But I’ll let him explain. D/s is about equality, seriously D/s is a relationship between equals. When you first say that, it almost sounds like a punchline to a joke. Because …

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Sep 15 2015

30 Days of Kink Day 15 Curiosity

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try. I’ve not yet done anything kinky outside of my head so I’m curious about all the things I’m interested in. I suppose the thing that’s most possible/practical for me to try (if I bothered to go to munches/get vetted/go to dungeons/etc) …

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Sep 12 2015

Fantasy versus Reality with Innermind

It’s easy to get swept up in the fantasy that cloaks BDSM, but Innermind is here to bring us all back down to reality when it comes to the actual relationship part of kink. It’s not fantasy island. Kink is sexy as fuck. The majority of us was brought into this world by the allure …

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Aug 22 2015

The Five Cs of Good D/s with Skyfire

This week’s Mentor post is a long one, but outstanding. It’s advice for how to have a fulfilling D/s relationship no matter which side of the slash you’re on. The Five C’s of Good Dominance and Submission Fetlife, for good or ill, has been a great tool to communicate with other kinky folks, and to …

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Jun 27 2015

Reasons to Submit with Brittunculi

This week’s Mentor post is from FetLife member Brittunculi, who is in a D/s relationship with Innermind. I’ve posted his work before and I’m sure I will do again. They both write extensively and articulately about their relationship–about how power exchange looks and feels from both sides of the slash–and it’s clear that there is …

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Jun 05 2015

The Duke of Burgundy

This review is free of spoilers, though in some ways this film is better if you know nothing about it going in. It may sound odd, but I recommend not reading this review, or any review. Just watch the film—it’s incredible. A young woman, Evelyn (Chiara D’Anna) arrives at her employer’s house—Cynthia (Sidse Babett Knudsen)—a …

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