Tag Archive: Consent

Sep 22 2017

Episode 062: Sinclair Sexsmith

Episode the sixty-second; wherein the Pageist discusses consent, feminism and just why so much erotic writing is so bad with author Sinclair Sexsmith. .43 Intro and Announcements: I’ll be teaching a class on lucid dreaming for otherwise impossible sexual fantasies at Eroticon in March! My bio will eventually appear on this page. From the endlessly …

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Jun 01 2017

Episode 053: Graydancer

Graydancer in a kilt with rope

Episode the fifty-third; Wherein the Pageist talks with Graydancer about consent. Also: The importance of giving blood. .45 Intro and Announcements: My first giveaway has ended. Two of the winners are Margaret and Amanda. Congrats to them! I’ve contacted the third person and am waiting to hear back. You can subscribe to the show’s rss …

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May 01 2017

Game Review: Radiator 2

Radiator 2 is a collection of three games by Robert Yang. The set is available for free on Steam, which is how I played them, though you can also get them on itch.io and pay what you like. They are available for Windows, Mac and Linux. The games included are: Hurt Me Plenty Concept: Spank …

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Feb 01 2017

Projecting Your Kink

There is a particular behaviour that I’ve witnessed—and experienced myself—in the kink scene online. It may happen out in the analogue world, too, but I don’t spend much time out there at play parties or dungeons so I can’t speak to that. From what I’ve experienced, it primarily happens from male-socialised individuals (MSI) towards female-presenting …

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Jan 11 2017

Hyenas: The Ultimate Kink Mascot

It’s generally accepted that the honey badger is nature’s BAMF. It can take a licking and keep on ticking. It straight up does not give af. I will not be disputing that in this article. But I would like to propose the female hyena as the mascot for several marginalised groups. FemDom (and the submissive …

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Mar 19 2016

Consent Accidents and Violations with Charlie Glickman

Charlie Glickman is a sex educator and all round awesome guy. This is a longer post, but it’s full of valuable information about consent. Consent Accidents and Consent Violations I was at a discussion group recently and someone shared a term that I hadn’t heard before: consent accidents. This is a really valuable nuance in …

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Mar 06 2016

Those Talking Genitals: Consent isn’t Simple

Have you seen those talking genitals? If you haven’t, here they are: If you’re someplace where you can’t (or don’t want to) watch disembodied, animated genitals then I shall describe them for you. There are three short ads. In one a brown breast and a white hand are laughing, just enjoying themselves, and the hand …

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Jul 25 2015

Women Can Violate Consent Too

This week’s mentor post comes from LunaLux and addresses the fact that yes, women can violate consent, too. Having been on the receiving end of consent violations from women and having it disregarded by others as ‘no big deal’ because, as we all know, women aren’t real people and, therefore, aren’t anything to be afraid …

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Jun 18 2015

Consent isn’t Just About Tea

Emily Nagoski (PhD), (the woman who wrote Come as You Are: The surprising new science that will transform your sex life) wrote a post entitled: The one reason I haven’t shared that tea/consent thing. This is what she’s talking about, if you haven’t seen it or need a refresher: The text of the video (with …

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