Tag Archive: Asexuality

Jun 15 2017

All the Smaller For It: Kink as Orientation & Nonsexual Kink

Sarah McDonald Kinky Nerd

All the Smaller For It a.k.a. Everyone Doesn’t Have to Experience Relationships the Way You Do This week hasn’t been so swift, as my Mother likes to say when she doesn’t feel good. ‘I don’t feel so swift.’ I started Monday morning being compared to a rapist and pedophile for being kinky. Here’s what happened. …

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Apr 12 2017

Naked People Make Me Fall Asleep

Why the Asexual Is Thinking About You Naked Not long ago I met a photographer who processes photography in old-timey ways—daguerrotypes, rather than Polaroids. (His name is Nicolas Laborie and his work is pretty neato.) Nicolas is interested in gender and how people present themselves and so on so we had a thought-provoking chat and …

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Mar 26 2016

Non-Sexual BDSM with Pegasus

Beyond the Rainbow is a blog that frequently focuses on asexuality within a BDSM context. I recommend checking out the site in a general, but this post in particular articulately addresses the common question of what asexuals get out of kink. This was written for the December 2014 Carnival of Aces on “Touch, Sensuality, and …

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Jan 04 2016

An Interview about Asexuality

Some months ago I started listening to Erotic Awakening, a podcast about all sorts of kinky things and non-traditional sexuality. The review is here. After that, I started corresponding with the hosts, Dan and dawn, and Dan looked at my profile on FetLife, as you do, and asked if I’d be interested in being interviewed …

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Nov 05 2015

Being Asexual and Kinky

What I Mean When I Say She’s Hot (Being Asexual and Kinky) Recently, I updated my FetLife profile and added this: I’m an asexual lesbian married to my best friend, whom I love dearly and who is a man. He is asexual, as well, and one of the best people I know. He knows I’m …

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