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30 Days of Kink Day 22: Healthy Relationships

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? Communication. Everything about BDSM seems to be about communication from both sides. If you’re trusting your life, mental health and physical safety to another human being (or accepting the responsibility of someone else’s […]

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30 Days of Kink Day 21: Favourite BDSM Book

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction). Probably Richard von Krafft-Ebing’s Psychopathia Sexualis about which I have waxed poetic on previous occasions. It was the first book written about paraphilias and fetishes. Krafft-Ebing took the radical view that homosexuality shouldn’t be illegal. Scandalous. Psychopathia Sexualis was supposed to be written for learned men […]

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