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Mentor Posts

This is an index of the posts by other authors on the site.

Alphabetical by Author

AccidentalFlirt: Being Honest About Your Kink
Anonymous: Submission and Dominance are Not Gifts
Aussie-Primal: Why You Should Easy Into Kink
Brittunculi: Reasons to SubmitWhy Punishment is a Gift
ButtonEyes MD: Minding Your Own Dynamic
Charlie Glickman: Consent Accidents and Violations
Chinaone: Motivations of Submission
Clark Kent: How to Deal with Plaid Giraffes
Corvus: Hot Edgeplay Check-ins
Daddyjohny: How to Clean a Flogger and Why
Dr Wilde: BDSM Play When Trauma is Involved
Emma L: What Doms are NOT
Evie Black: What it Means to Like Pain
Innermind: The Beauty of Power ExchangeEquality in D/s; Fantasy versus Reality
IPCookieMonster: Anatomy for Rope Bondage
Ivy Leigh: Dungeon Etiquette
Jasna: The Evolution of Friendships and Polyamory
JeffMach: Switches CAN Be Dominant
JohnnyThrash: Blindfolds are Your Best Toy
Lady Trinidad: Between Scene and Aftercare
LunaLux: Women Can Violate Consent Too
Master James: Gold Star Doms
Meantoys: Why You Should Meet in Public
Mixtape Heart: Don’t Cheer for Ashley Madison Going Down Just Yet
Mollena Williams: New York Times Article about her relationship with her husband, Georg Friedrich Haas; Service is the Drug
Myintimia: BDSM Play Party Etiquette
Octopuppy: How to Fix Anal Fissures
Paradox81: Rules for Submissives
Pegasus: Non-Sexual BDSM
Pepper Pots: On being a No-Limits Submissive
Phi-is-me: On Behalf of Empowered Subs
Rain DeGrey: Being a Lioness
Rebecca E Blanton: What Everyone Needs to Know About Sub-Space
Roo-roo: Finding a Kinky Partner
Sexsmurf: What a Dom Actually is
ShadowN7: How to Be a Better Male Submissive
SirStarryNight: What Dominance and submission is
Skyfire: The Five Cs of Good D/s
Stephanie Stevens: Poly Isn’t Hard
SubmissiveGuide: Processing Pain
The Ferrett: Be Brutally PolyamorousKink Can be Tedious, The Saddest Thing About Dick PicsSubmitting to Strange Women
The-River-Lethe: Mommy & Daddy Doms & Little Girls & Boys
Sub-Kittie: Perpetuating Stigmas
Toebob: Correction, Discipline and Punishment
Tornus: Not a Checklist
undressedl: Dominance is Not About Being an Ass
Unknown: 10 Signs He’s an Asshole Not a Dominant

By Subject

Aftercare
Between Scene and Aftercare with Lady Trinidad

Asexuality
Non-Sexual BDSM with Pegasus

Checklists
Not a Checklist with Tornus

Communication
Being Honest about Your Kink with AccidentalFlirt

Consensual Non-Consent
No Limits Submission with Pepper Pots

Consent
Consent Accidents and Violations with Charlie Glickman
Women Can Violate Consent Too with LunaLux

D/s (Dominance/submission)
The Beauty of Power Exchange with Innermind
Equality in D/s with Innermind
Fantasy versus Reality with Innermind
The Five Cs of Good D/s with Skyfire
NYT Article about the positive influence D/s has on their relationship with Mollena Williams
Submission and Dominance are Not Gifts with Anonymous
What Dominance and submission is with SirStarryNight

Daddy Doms and their ilk
Mommy & Daddy Doms & Little Girls and Boys from The River Lethe

Dating (general)
The Saddest Thing About Dick Pics with TheFerrett

Dominants
10 Signs He’s an Asshole Not a Dominant with [Unknown]
Dominance is Not About Being an Ass with undressedl
Gold Star Doms with Master James
What a Dom Actually is with sexsmurf
What Doms are NOT with Emma L

Feminism
Being a Lioness with Rain DeGrey

Health
Fixing Anal Fissures with Octopuppy

Munches
Why You Should Meet in Public with Meantoys

Judgement
How to Deal with Plaid Giraffes with Clark Kent

Kink (General)
Kink Can be Tedious with The Ferrett

Negotiation
Being Honest about Your Kink with AccidentalFlirt
Not a Checklist with Tornus

Non-Monogamy
Be Brutally Polyamorous with Ferrett Steinmetz (TheFerrett)
The Evolution of Friendships and Polyamory with Jasna
Poly Isn’t Hard with Stephanie Stevens

Outing
Don’t Cheer for Ashley Madison Going Down Just Yet with Mixtape Heart

Masochism
What it Means to Like Pain with Evie Black

Pain
Processing Pain with Submissive Guide

Punishment
Correction, Discipline and Punishment with Toebob
Why Punishment is a Gift with Brittunculi

Relationships
Finding a Kinky Partner with roo-roo
Submitting to Strange Women with Ferrett Steinmetz (TheFerrett)

Rope
Anatomy for Rope Bondage with IPCookieMonster

Safety
BDSM Play When Trauma is Involved with Dr Wilde
Hot Edgeplay Check-ins with Corvus
How to Clean a Flogger and Why with Daddyjohny
Why You Should Ease Into Kink with Aussie-Primal

Scene Etiquette
BDSM Play Party Etiquette with Myintimia
Dungeon Etiquette with Ivy Leigh
Minding Your Own Dynamic with ButtonEyes MD

Service
Service is the Drug with Mollena Williams

STDs/STIs
Perpetuating Stigmas with Sub-Kittie

Submissives
How to Be a Better Male Submissive with ShadowN7
Motivations of Submission with Chinaone
On Behalf of Empowered Subs with Phi-is-me
Reasons to Submit with Brittunculi
Rules for Submissives with Paradox81

Subspace
What Everyone Needs to Know About Subspace with Rebecca E Blanton

Switches
Switches CAN Be Dominant with JeffMach

Toys
Blindfolds are Your Best Toy with JohnnyThrash