Category Archive: General

Jun 01 2017

Wish the Pageist a Happy Birthday

The Pageist

My birthday is this month (39!) and I’ve finally found a mission in life (letting people know they are just fine with their proclivities, whatever they are, and helping them learn to do their thing as safely as possible). It’s my job and everything.   Every single year has been better than the last and …

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May 20 2017

Migraines are the devil

I have been laid low by a post-blood-donation migraine. This week’s episode will be up by Monday.

Apr 20 2017

The Pageist’s Adult Fun Pack of Fun Giveaway

It’s my first giveaway and I couldn’t be more excited. Well, not without winning the lottery, anyway. Several very cool people and companies have donated neato things for grownups who enjoy being creative—I’m going to compile them into three (mostly) identical packs—and send them off to winners. Gleam is running the contest because I can’t …

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Status update

Listeners, I am still coughing to the point of being unable to breathe, which is not conducive to podcasting. Beyond that, I’m finally feeling a bit better and trying to catch up on work. There’s a giveaway in the works, so stay tuned for that!

Mar 08 2017

Con Drop and Cough Drops

I have returned from Eroticon (which was enormous fun) with some sort of illness (not any amount of fun). Walter had it as we arrived in London on Friday and it began for me as we returned Sunday evening or Monday morning. I can’t recall now, as I’m pretty zapped. I have a cough and …

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Feb 20 2017

Eroticon 2017 Virtual Introduction

NAME (and Twitter if you have one) Paige, sometimes people call me The Pageist. @thepageist What are you hoping to get out of Eroticon 2017? This is my first Eroticon so I’m looking forward to meeting people whose work I enjoy and who have experience doing what I’m still fairly new at. Simply being around …

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Status update

There’s a new mobile-friendly version of the site up, about which I am most excited. If you use the site through a mobile device of some sort, give it a go and let me know what you think!

Status update

Episode 37 will be a bit late, as I’m recovering from a migraine. You can still hear me talk about books with Lee Harrington here. Or check out Wednesday’s post of my version of sexting.

Dec 02 2016

How to Support the Pageist

Free Ways to Support the Podcast and Website Follow the Twitter account (@thepageist) and retweet posts about reviews I’ve published and podcast episodes that have gone live. Follow thepageist on Medium and like and recommend my writings (if you actually like them). Share them on your own social media if you’re comfortable with that. This …

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May 05 2016

Teeny Weenies — My First Weenies

Last month one of my favorite sex toy reviewers, Hey Epiphora, reviewed tiny dildos, which are apparently a thing that many dildo companies make as promotional items. They’re really small. Smaller than your pinky. They can’t possibly be used for… purposes. It was an April Fools Joke of a review, but she actually did all the …

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Feb 14 2016

How to Support The Pageist

I have been pretty aimless for most of my life, well, all of my life. Over the last year I’ve realized what I really want to do is learn about kink, write about kink, talk about kink and eventually teach it (to law enforcement and law-makers, as a mediator–that sort of thing). I’ve written before …

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Nov 18 2015

Boobs and a Rant

The boobs are very nice so I’m going to keep this rant brief. I source most all of my erotic images from Tumblr. When I find one I want to share I use multiple reverse image search engines (SauceNAO, IQDB, TinEye and Google) to try to find the original. Most of the time this is …

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Nov 08 2015

Porn for Men

I’ve written before about how admins can see the search terms visitors used to find their sites. This time I signed in and was greeted by this: Now, I know why the person was directed to my site–it was due to the ‘Lesbian Porn for Men vs for Lesbians‘ piece–that’s not what confused me. What confused me …

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Oct 18 2015

My Introduction to Leather Care

I’ve … let’s use the word ‘appreciated’ leather for quite some time. I asked for a leather jacket when I was seventeen and that wasn’t during a time when leather jackets were in style. Leather cuffs–just regular wrist bands that can be worn in public (and the other sort, too) have always held a certain …

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Oct 11 2015

The Best BDSM Relationship on Film

Dun dun dun DUN :snap snap: Gomez and Morticia Addams have not only one of most passionate relationships on TV/the big screen–still driving one another crazy even after two kids and who knows how many years of marriage–but they are also well-versed in the kink thing. Caroline Diezyn explores this in The Addams Family does BDSM …

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Sep 30 2015

30 Days of Kink: The Last Fetish Shop in N.O.

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about. I had planned to write about my romp amongst the multiple fetish shops that were no doubt thriving in New Orleans, what with all the sinners and all. (Drinking on the street is legal there–this is unusual in the U.S.) I was sorely disappointed. Prior …

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Sep 29 2015

30 Days of Kink Day 29: Titles

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general? I do not have a title (unless The Pageist counts, which I’d be pleased with). None of the titles I’ve heard other people called or used …

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Sep 28 2015

30 Days of Kink Day 28 Attire

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you? I haven’t actually done anything, but in my head I would go to dungeons (and I intend to do this eventually) in black jeans, a white button down top and black leather corset or waist corset of some …

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Sep 27 2015

30 Days of Kink Day 27: Non-kink activities

30 Days of Kink. Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how? All of my kinky activities are in my head, but my non-kink interests involved reading, writing and organizing. If I had a Dominant who wanted me to read books so we could discuss them …

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Sep 26 2015

30 Days of Kink Day 26: Online BDSM Play

Day 26: What’s your opinion of online BDSM play? I suppose it’s like any other sort of relationship in that as long as both people are approaching the experience with the same goals (for an hour, for fun or looking to build a long-term relationship, for example) and as long as everyone is honest about …

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