The Pageist is a podcast, which focuses on reviews of books about BDSM, sex education, ethical non-monogamy, sex work, gender issues, the science of sex–you name it. I also interview authors of those sorts of books, as well as other people with experience in kink or sex education, on the show to talk about a range of kinky, sexy things.

The Pageist is also a website with reviews of various media aimed at the kink and sex positive community. Media reviewed includes films, apps, games, websites, sex toy reviewers and podcasts.

The site also has non-fiction writing on a variety of subjects of interest to people in the kink and sex positive community. There’s a fiction section, as well, with erotica, and some vanilla, though still controversial writing.

Also on the site is an extensive (and growing) resource section and a special section for s-types with essays, reviews and prompts.

Finally, there are book recommendations and a gift guide if you’re looking for the best-of-the-best.

I am passionate about sex education, consent and inclusion.

The aim of the site & podcast is to help people find media of any sort that will assist them on their own journey and make them feel seen. I try to be as objective as possible so each person can decide if whatever is being reviewed is a good fit for them. Like a dating app for media.

I do my best to attribute sources of images that appear on the site–if your work appears on my site and it has been incorrectly attributed, please leave a comment and I will correct it (or remove it if you like.)

Obviously, this site is 18+ and NSFW.

Thank you.


[If you’d like to know more about my specific kinks and vanilla self, click here. I’m all over the internet and you can see where our digital worlds collide here.]


If you’d like to contact me for some (hopefully nice) reason, please use the contact form below. If you’d like me to review your book on the show, digital books can be sent to thepageist [at] gmail [dot] com. PDFs or mobi, please. Though I can convert other file types if those aren’t available. [I …

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Post Schedule

Monday: Reviews of apps, podcasts, websites, games, sex toy review sites or other things that are marketed to the kink and sex-positive communities. Tuesday: The text of the Book review from the previous podcast episode. Wednesday: Essay on a variety of subjects, typically kink-based. Thursday: New podcast episode. Friday: A review of a film with either an element of kink or real …

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Recurring Cast

People I Mention On Occasion: A Guide Walter: My husband. His name isn’t actually Walter, but when I called him vanilla once he said he didn’t have a flavour. I said, ‘Like water?’ He laughed and agreed. Water = Walter. He’s very supportive and a big sweetie. Someone once commented that he’s so laid back …

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Support the Pageist

Free Ways to Support the Podcast and Website Follow the Twitter account (@thepageist) and retweet posts about reviews I’ve published and podcast episodes that have gone live. Follow thepageist on Medium and like and recommend my writings (if you actually like them). Share them on your own social media if you’re comfortable with that. This …

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Where to Find Me

Social media! Here are my accounts and what you’re likely to find on each one.   Patreon*: thepageist. Support the site and podcast at a variety of levels and receive rewards in return. This page has other ways to show your support–both monetarily and not–as well as why you might consider doing so. Though any …

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The Pageist Herself

Pageism: a desire to be a page to a beautiful woman. A form of submission to a dominant female. –Psychopathia Sexualis The About page covers the purview of the site and podcast ‘The Pageist’, but sometimes people want to know a bit more about the person behind the scenes. So… here’s a bit more. The …

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