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Aug 06 2016

BDSM Play When Trauma is Involved with Dr Wilde

This week’s mentor post concerns some favorite topics of ethical kinksters: safety, negotiation, communication and knowing oneself and one’s play partner.

The author, a_wild_woman on Fet a.k.a. Dr Laura Wilde asked me to link to the original post on her personal website rather than repost, so you may read the full piece here: BDSM Play with a Partner Who Has a History of Trauma

The aim of the piece (taken from the beginning) is:

The purpose of this writing is to give you a few ideas to help your play partner if or when they go seriously off balance into their traumatic history.

There’s a great deal of useful information about what both of you can do before, during and after play to minimize the risk of triggering flashbacks or, if triggered, how to best handle the situation.

The writing is concise and articulate–I highly recommend giving the post a read.

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