Leaether Strip (not a typo) is a Danish band that consists of one person–Claus Larsen. It sounds like far more people are involved–just have a listen.
With out-right fetishitic themes and lyrics in various songs, it was impossible to choose one or even two. Hence the playlist above (which I did not compile).
Larsen is openly gay and also has songs that are aggressively anti-Nazi and confronts suicide bombers.
Much of his music is electro and industrial (heavy on the industrial), though some has a more melodic feel.
There is a lot of it, so flip through a few and see if anything presses your buttons.
You can listen to and purchase his music in a variety of formats here.