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Sep 26 2015

30 Days of Kink Day 26: Online BDSM Play

Not *exactly* what this post is about...

Not *exactly* what this post is about…

Day 26: What’s your opinion of online BDSM play?

I suppose it’s like any other sort of relationship in that as long as both people are approaching the experience with the same goals (for an hour, for fun or looking to build a long-term relationship, for example) and as long as everyone is honest about their motives then what’s the harm? I live most of my life on the internet and met my husband there so I know how profound online relationships can be.

I’ve never had a virtual BDSM relationship, though, so I don’t know how protocols or rituals or physical scenes are dealt with. People must handle them in whatever ways are meaningful to them and work for their specific situations.

I do believe we can learn a great deal about ourselves and our beliefs simply through talking about them, so virtual play can be useful in that way.

Also, BDSM scenes are often fantasy-based and coming up with new scenes to type to your partner is a way to be creative. I’m sure a person can get really imaginative when there are no budgetary limits for props and costumes.

To my mind, it’s just another way of getting your kink on.

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