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Sep 01 2015

30 Days of Kink Day 1: Introductions

Welcome to September! If you’re in the northern hemisphere the heat will stop trying to kill you soon. If you’re in the southern hemisphere, hang on because it’s just cranking up.

I’ll be out of town for a week or so, visiting friends in New Orleans, then recovering from being social and travelling–both activities I find exhausting to the extreme–so I’m scheduling a bunch of posts in advance.

During my trip some of my friends and I will be visiting a fetish shop or five so I’ll have pictures of goodies later.

Anyway, while I’m away and for the month of September, the blog will be off its regularly scheduled…schedule. Instead I’ll be posting responses to the 30 Days of Kink blog challenge where there’s a prompt each day for thirty days. There are loads of these sorts of things out there on various topics and I’ve never been interested, but for some reason this one caught my eye. And what do you know, September has thirty days.

That must be why. Yeah. Because I needed something for this month and it has the right number of days… Riiight.

I may also post some of my regular blog fare, as well, but maybe not. It depends on how I feel.

If you’d like to see what questions will be coming up in the next month, all are available here.

Everyone laced up and ready to go?

Everyone laced up and ready to go?

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us interesting in-depth definitions of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Well whomever wrote this set of questions didn’t want much on day one, did they? Is that all? Let’s take these one at a time.

Dom, sub, switch: I’m a submissive of the service-oriented variety, as documented all over this site. What this means is that I’m naturally submissive/subservient to a certain sort of person (older, confident, intelligent women) and want nothing more than to do their bidding. Mostly in a secretarial and housework sort of way.

What parts of BDSM interest you: Everything interests me on an intellectual level. The parts that most answer something within me are Domination and submission (power exchange). In terms of BDSM itself…well, a bit of bondage, a dab of discipline, a soupçon of sadism and a micron of masochism, please. Just a taste of the entire spice rack, I suppose. Not a great deal of any of it. I’d like a plateful of D/s seasoned lightly with BDSM.

I love ‘basically’ define yourself for us. Just, you know, define yourself. That’s all. Luckily, I have this site to do that for me. The best definitions I have are my essays on pageism. The most succinct is probably the second one on the post entitled The Pageist Introduces Herself.